Online dating is often marketed as convenient, empowering, and efficient, but anyone who has spent time swiping knows the emotional reality is far more complex.

This post explores the mental health impact of online dating, the psychological mechanisms behind it, and evidence-informed ways to protect your self-worth while remaining open to genuine connection.

When it comes to mental health, people often focus on therapy, medication, or mindfulness. While these are important, one of the most powerful yet overlooked tools is your diet. What you eat doesn’t just affect your body—it directly impacts your brain, mood, energy, and resilience to stress. Understanding this connection can help you make choices that strengthen both mind and body.

When it comes to mental health, men are often overlooked. Society tells men to “man up,” “tough it out,” or “deal with it,” but these outdated messages come at a cost. Mental health isn’t a weakness. It’s about well-being, resilience, and knowing when to ask for support.

Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder is far more complex than being “distracted” or “hyper.” Beneath the surface is a brain wired for creativity, intuition, and problem-solving, but one that faces genuine challenges in regulating attention, motivation, and emotion. Understanding the neuroscience behind ADHD helps explain why these challenges are real and how treatment can help people thrive.

When someone we care about is struggling, many people feel torn between wanting to help and not knowing how. Support often feels high-stakes—what if you say the wrong thing, or they pull away, or you accidentally make things heavier?

This guide explains why certain kinds of support work, what mental distress actually involves, and how to be a steady presence without overgiving or burning out.

Social media has become central to teenage life. For many adolescents, it’s where they connect with peers, explore identity, and express themselves creatively. But these platforms also carry psychological risks that can affect mood, cognition, behaviour, and relationships, particularly for vulnerable teens.

With Australia’s under-16 social media ban approaching, parents and caregivers need practical, evidence-informed strategies to support teens empathetically while fostering resilience, self-awareness, and safe online habits.

We all interpret the world through our own lens, shaped by experiences, beliefs, memories, and mood. But sometimes that lens becomes warped, leading us to draw inaccurate or unhelpful conclusions. Psychologists call these patterns cognitive distortions: habitual ways of thinking that feel true in the moment but pull us away from reality, often amplifying distress.

Alcohol is woven into the fabric of Australian culture, from Friday knock-offs and weekend barbecues to sporting celebrations, weddings, and long lunches. For many Australians, drinking isn’t simply a behaviour; it’s a cultural ritual, a shared language, and a psychologically meaningful experience. This article takes a look at the psychology behind Australia’s drinking culture and what helps people shift their relationship with alcohol.

Supporting a young person in distress is one of the most challenging and important roles adults carry. Teens experience emotions intensely, communicate them unpredictably, and often struggle to express what they need. For parents, carers, educators, and youth-facing professionals, it can feel overwhelming to know how to respond.

This guide brings together psychological principles, practical tools, and trauma-informed responses that create emotional safety for young people when they need it most.

When life feels overwhelming, stressful, or directionless, many people focus on trying to eliminate discomfort—pushing away anxiety, fighting negative thoughts, or waiting to feel motivated. But in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), we anchor ourselves differently. Instead of fighting internal experiences, ACT guides you toward living a life driven by what truly matters: your values.

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) is one of the most evidence-based and effective approaches for emotional dysregulation, long-standing coping patterns, trauma responses, and relationship instability. This guide explains what DBT is, why emotions feel so hard for some people, how DBT works in the brain, and what to expect when you begin DBT-informed therapy at Be Anchored Psychology.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is one of the most widely researched and effective psychological therapies used across Australia. At Be Anchored Psychology, we use CBT to help clients understand their patterns, reduce distress, overcome avoidance, and build long-term psychological resilience.

Burnout develops when chronic workplace stress outweighs your internal and external resources for too long. It’s the nervous system’s version of a red warning light: You cannot keep going like this.

Rather than seeing burnout as a personal failure, it’s more accurate to understand it as a biopsychosocial condition shaped by workload intensity, perfectionism, workplace culture, and nervous-system strain.

Mindfulness has become a buzzword, but beneath the trends, it’s a powerful psychological skill backed by decades of research. At Be Anchored Psychology, mindfulness is one of the core tools we use to help clients regulate emotions, reduce stress, break unhelpful patterns, and create space from self-criticism, without having to become calm, "zen," or empty-headed.

Rumination — the cycle of going over the same thoughts again and again — is exhausting, frustrating, and often invisible to others. It’s not simply “thinking too much.” Rumination is an emotional and neurological pattern where the brain becomes locked into scanning, analysing, comparing and predicting in an attempt to gain control or avoid discomfort.

In this post, we’ll explore the psychology behind procrastination, debunk common myths, discuss motivation, examine how mental health can impact task engagement, explain how therapy can help, share strategies for long-term habit change, answer common questions, and provide a mini self-check quiz to identify your procrastination patterns.

Jealousy is a protective emotional reaction: it arises when you sense a threat, real or imagined, to your connection, self-worth, or relational security. Rather than ignoring or suppressing it, understanding the message in jealousy can guide healing — because jealousy often exposes deep needs like safety, validation or trust.

Surprise is an often-overlooked but powerful emotion. Unlike fear, anger, sadness, or joy, surprise doesn’t convey a clear positive or negative valence on its own—it’s an interruptive signal that something unexpected has occurred. Its purpose is to redirect attention, recalibrate the nervous system, and prepare you to respond to new information.

Disgust is one of the most powerful, yet often misunderstood, emotions. While it’s commonly associated with food or hygiene, disgust also plays a crucial role in social, moral, and relational functioning. It signals what our nervous system perceives as unsafe, unacceptable, or incompatible with our values.

Joy is often spoken about as the “pleasant” emotion, yet for many people it is surprisingly difficult to let in. While anger, sadness, or fear may feel familiar and predictable, joy can feel vulnerable, fleeting, or even uncomfortable.

Joy is the emotional state that allows you to expand—into the moment, into connection, into the parts of life that feel meaningful. It is not simply happiness; it’s a full-bodied sense of aliveness.